Believe it or not I am actually going away for a few days...to Lake Placid for a much needed escape from everything. This will be the first time I'm getting away without the trip being a sojourn to New Jersey for dealing with my Mother's death.

After talking with my Father this morning, I realized I really need this break.

However, I have been thinking more about shoes since I read Shamash's post this morning. Take a look at it--it's a wonderful read...

Also go over to Ainsley's blog and read this post and the comments...we had an interesting little back and forth about infidelity and men, which has me drafting a three-blog essay titled The Rules of Infidelity.

I think it's about time someone put a good $.02 out there about the subject, and, dammit, I seem to have alot of info on it, so it might as well be me.

I'm leaving in the a.m. and will be back on tuesday. I will feel massively guilty for not blogging during that time, but since I can't afford a laptop or a super sophisticated cell phone or blackberry to do moblogging, I'll have to live with the guilt.....

Enjoy the holiday!